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· Mar 22, 2021

Replying to @VinveliVEERA

been thinking about this. feels like a lack of shared purpose. i've been trying to be a little more strategic but mostly not talking about it here

there are lots of tweets i’ve wanted to criticize and have refrained from doing so bc the criticisms assume the OP shares some of my goals. maybe they don’t, who knows? so i’ve been unfollowing and muting more instead

as for my own tweets, most of the stuff on my current edge is stuff i’m not posting here anymore. feels too half-baked and boringly detailed and high-context. had some weird experiences trying to do that earlier this year and sort of gave up on it and decided to be more private

it was fun when i felt like at least some of us were really bought into the shared goal of “explore feelings / trauma / etc together” publicly, and there’s still some of that going on but idk feels like i’ve also been seeing more pushback. feels less safe now :/

8:05 AM · Mar 22, 2021Twitter for iPad

i don’t think pushback is bad exactly, but like... i’m increasingly aware of the ways in which different people in different situations need to hear different things bc they have different bottlenecks, and twitter is poorly suited to dealing with this :/

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just feels like there’s too many competing needs flying around on public twitter. smaller online venues currently feel to me like the way to go to handle this but there’s a really unfortunate discoverability problem (the main good thing about doing this stuff publicly). idk!

this is all before even getting into the fact that i think everyone is in a worse mood bc of the 1-year lockdown wall :///

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yes, and your tweets / advice can still be useful for people i still think about all the attachment stuff and

@captain_mrs

linked me to a simple attachment exercise the other day that sent me crying so hard that i haven't before so it clearly did something