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QC (in Berlin 7/29-???)
@QiaochuYuan
wow this looks really cool, and, speaking just about my own personal hangups, i would be very uncomfortable attempting to write a similar "date me" page for myself 😬 v v uncomfortable with describing myself, esp. as having positive qualities
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Chana
@ChanaMessinger
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Oh man, @uncatherio's Date Me website is so excellent. I love this genre of thing: people putting themselves out there, saying clearly and publicly that they want a partner, and knowing who they are and what they're looking for. paper.dropbox.com/doc/catherios-
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@himbodhisattva
if you imagine a situation in which you commit to having a quality, then someone "calls you out" with evidence of doing the opposite, how does that feel? bc it seems like "lol so what nothing is permanent, this is still a trait of mine" is open as a response
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@himbodhisattva
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@QiaochuYuan
yeah I think for me it's really tied to saying "I am X" instead of "I strive to be X" things this makes me think of: just deciding "I am a himbo" and how after there were real downstream effects (getting abs for the first time) I think many traits are more stable in me now
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