quick question, is the disorganized attachment style basically having dismissing & preoccupied at the same time, or is there a layer beyond that?
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it presents that way in terms of what kinda stuff you do (like you have both dismissing and preoccupied patterns) but the attachment repair guy emphasized that the core of it was really that you're afraid of your primary caregiver
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a bit from my notes re: how disorganized attachment presents
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ahh, thanks
also >caregiver disassociated around infant
thank christ I'm not gonna have kids anytime soon lmao
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this is relevant to me, thank you. any recomended reading surrounding this?
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this is The Book on the subject, by dan brown, started reading it a little and it's a little textbooky for my tastes but seems like has good stuff
