hmm gonna try responding a different kind of way than usual - who's the person you admire the most who doesn't appear to be very consistent in this way?
I’m sort of similar-ish but I try not to use words like demand. It’s like: I have “circles of respect/admiration”, & people are free to be/exist wherever they are, including me. I seek out people I respect, & challenge myself + invite others to ascend, but no pressure/obligation