in disorganized attachment, the caregiver is supposed to be a source of comfort but becomes a source of fear. moving towards the caregiver feels unacceptable and moving away also feels unacceptable
when everything feels unacceptable, you can't act based on feeling anymore
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So if your parents did everything right, you *can* navigate through life entirely by your feelings and get good results?
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