in disorganized attachment, the caregiver is supposed to be a source of comfort but becomes a source of fear. moving towards the caregiver feels unacceptable and moving away also feels unacceptable
when everything feels unacceptable, you can't act based on feeling anymore
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and thus, in the greatest cope of all time, we create the concept of "rationality" to replace it
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i wanted to leave the implication as an exercise 😅
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external voice: ah, what a relatable mood
internal voice: ten thousand lines of anguished screaming
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it do be like that sometimes 😔
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