"You deserve newborn love" is an uplifting statement. "You NEED to care of your ELEPHANT" sends strong "hey emotions, fuck you, just shut up already" signal
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also implicitly identifies the self with the rider rather than the elephant! that never sat well with me
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I strongly identified with rational parts, rider, system 1, etc, then realized I am doing something wrong
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one of the many funny bits about this for me is i think it’s common for rationalists to believe that system 2 or whatever has goals and desires that are in conflict with system 1’s
this is not at all how it works imo. system 2 is not capable of wanting anything
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