“i grew up on the internet” = “the internet is how i escaped from my parents”
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everyone who “grew up on the internet” has ADHD now, because:
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ADHD is insecure attachment
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real wish having secure attachments fixed executive dysfunction hours
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the attachment repair guy claims that it does lol, although need to carefully distinguish “having secure attachments” from “having secure attachment”
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several people easy to let go easy to open up, never worried about being "weird" or getting judged or getting abandoned; because I understand why we're together and love them
through relationships & breakups & missed interests; love limerance
can't file taxes on time still
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like even with secure relationships there are still limits to availability, you still probably experience small emotional flinches that make things harder to do that you don’t bother bringing up with your friends or partners because they are both small and frequent
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My philosophy for getting this house together if to practice sharing the little things to build up communication channels before the big ones hit
I'm routinely completely open to people close to me including about frustrations with them
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routine work stuff just isn't the same
I don't think of it as important or having a sense of value it's just ritual I don't like to participate in
attachments are really personal and important and valueble
it doesn't really extend to random shit I have to do to get paid
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