There is something wrong with this
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can you clarify / elaborate?
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Just in an interpersonal way. It feels like assigning scores to people and personalities in your brain.
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what do you mean by "it" here?
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Context dependent valuation of friends
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This was not intended as some sort of dunk
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sorry, i'm still not sure i understand what you mean. i'm talking about context-dependent valuation of *behaviors* here (at least i think i am)
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I think that translates into judgment of friends and then things get weird. I don’t think you can say behaviors and then say you’re not judging the people around you. AKA your friends.
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i am really trying to understand here but like i don't understand how you are not, right now, doing the thing you are telling me is bad
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This is true! My feelings are not your analytic discourse would be another way to describe it.
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are you saying having feelings about what your friends do is fine but analyzing what your friends do is not?