this might explain why i insist on tweeting in such a way that i cannot be described as a type of guy. every type of guy is a target. no thank u
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we are similar in many ways so it’s interesting where we are different
the internet taught me that being attacked is a form of intimacy and I have always craved intimacy 😂
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hmmmmmm 🤔 can you expand on this?
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I like being attacked
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i realized something while reflecting on some past conflicts i've had with people
sometimes when friends sent me fight requests, I accepted them to be polite
because (in these specific egs i'm thinking of), to decline to fight would be to create a sort of chasm between us
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like even when someone is insulting me I'm like "ok I can maybe see how you might think that way but give me some context here"
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hmm i can see how this could make sense coming from a background where you’re not afraid of attackers singlehandedly ruining your reputation 🤔 most of the people who attack you seem to be pissants tbh
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I had some rep-ruiny-ish conflicts as a teenager and you could interpret my massive body of work / friend network etc as a sort of hedge against that
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feel like this convo is very neatly comparing preoccupied and avoidant attachment ?
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🤔 am not sufficiently familiar with the terminology but I’d take your word for it
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anxious / preoccupied be like: pls no attacc me im smol 🥺
dismissive / avoidant be like: whatever bring it on. i don’t care. *takes deep drag on cigarette* you cannot attack me in a way that matters