I'm a bit afraid of ingroup heresy here, but I need to know: what's the upside of self-coercion? nothing is all-good, right? we must get some benefit from it if we do it so much
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fit in with other people, esp. with the ghosts of your parents inside you
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Replying to @QiaochuYuan @alt_kia and @Meaningness
lots more to say, i won't be able to do justice to this question in a few tweets but i'll close with these screenshots from the coherence therapy manual about different kinds of purposes for maintaining low self-worth
