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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID 😷)
@QiaochuYuan
1. smell each other asap (no perfume etc) to test for immune compatibility 2. nonverbal dates to test for ~vibe compatibility~ (dancing, nonverbal improv games, nonverbal authentic relating) 3. group dates to test for ~commune compatibility~ (haha jk... unless...?)
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Julia Galef
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In honor of V-day: What "weird" dating strategies do you think would help more people find love, if only those strategies were more socially acceptable? Ideas I've seen: - Travel / live together early (in a "fail fast" spirit) - Make "date me" questionnaires w/your key priorities
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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID 😷)
@QiaochuYuan
4. reading "you are the one you've been waiting for" out loud together to create a ~shared understanding of how to deal with feelings in connection~ that's it basically that's already a huge improvement over the status quo
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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID 😷)
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this valentine's day please give yourself the gift of this free sample of richard schwartz's IFS relationship book, "you are the one you've been waiting for" thread of choice quotes (all of this is from the introduction and first chapter alone) ifsca.ca/wp-content/upl
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