bf who is invested in seeing himself as intelligent and gf who is seeking validation from intelligent men
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Is this a healthy fantasy or just self aggrandizement?
if so yes.
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it’s just a thing that happened to me and it sucked actually
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Wait how so? I feel like a relationship like this would feed my ego in a lot of comfy ways
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it turns out feeding of ego is a terrible basis for a relationship
makes your happiness way too dependent on your partner behaving in a very specific way, which is totally unsustainable
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