Why do monogamists care so very much about polyamory?
Everyone just leave each other’s romantic lives alone. Your own should make sense to you, others’ don’t need to.
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some poly people have a policy of not dating other people unless they are not only 1) poly but 2) have another partner (for extra stability), and the more people have a policy like that in a dating pool the harder it gets for mono and/or single people to date
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tbf I see a *lot* of poly proselytizing and I think much of it is in response to that.
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yeah didn't mean to imply i thought what i just said was the dominant effect, but it's the one that would affect me personally the most, as a person who wants to be (eventually) mono(ish)


