I'm nearly incapable of having sex dreams involving anyone but my partner while in a monogamous relationship
this has held true for years now
at some point I'm just like "look I'm sorry you're very attractive but I'm married"
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last night I dreamed that a bunch of irl and twitter friends and I were taking some drama/dance class together and it was pretty physically involved
and there was a moment where it could have turned into a sex dream (or a sexual tension dream) but instead...
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...everyone sat down and had a nice conversation about comfort levels and respecting one another's existing commitments and making sure that everyone's partners were on the same page about what the class was going to involve, "since it was somewhat informally structured"
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and then we all had a fun, wholesome time until the dream pivoted to something weird involving a ghost
so apparently my subconscious is 1) very comfortable with a large subset of mutuals and 2) models them as intensely scrupulous and respectful
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