caught myself a few times today calling the baby āpoliteā (āgrzecznaā in Polish)
not sure if this is the case in English too, but the word āgrzecznaā usually implies the person is:
obedient
calm
quiet
not demanding much attention
not speaking up
I need some different words.
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Iāve also read on few different occasions itās best not to call daughters pretty or beautiful so that they donāt put too much self-worth in their looks, but I just canāt help it, my baby girl is the most beautiful creature on this planet and sure as hell she gotta know about it
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i donāt think itās āputting too much self-worth in their looksā so much as ālearning that love is conditional on looksā
so just... keep it unconditional yāknow š