which gender is the one where you want both power and validation 🧐 i guess i’m that one
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tfw you want validation so you feel like you have permission to use your power
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This is not how power works lol
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hmm 🤔 can you elaborate? that’s often how it’s worked for me
in this context, the ability to get stuff done, influence people and the world, enact one’s values; the opposite of helplessness
i’ve often been scared of doing this for various reasons, esp. influencing people, but i have done it and it’s often been tied to feeling validated
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