there are four genders and they are secure attachment, anxious / preoccupied attachment, dismissive / avoidant attachment, and disorganized / fearful attachment
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this kind of works except that a bunch of people move around the preoccupied and avoidant line back and forth
the cPTSD partner dynamic ppl often write about is that ppl are avoidant (scared to hurt or get hurt), connect strongly (preoccupied), then sense abandonment and lesve
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Similarly some ppl move between fearful and secure based on depression levels, where they just don't engage with others much when depressed, and can engage in secure ways when not
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