i think in the past i would’ve felt embarrassed or something about the large swings in topic but look idk sometimes to figure out how to make money you have to go all the way back to how your anxious attachment makes you fundamentally afraid of exploring the world
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attachment repair guy: attachment patterns are discernible by 10 months of age, and 75% chance you have the same attachment patterns at 18 months vs. at age 20
me: *suddenly remembers that my dad moved to singapore a year ahead of my mom when i was 12 months old*
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10 months? 🥺Now I just wanna hug and hold like 100 babies 😭❤️
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it just works, man, and I can't explain it
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The Unreasonable Effectiveness of Hugging your Children
My most effective parenting technique, and I was not a hugger before being a mom. In one of my children I can literally feel negative emotion leave her body when I hold her, no talking. Ever since she was a toddler (13 now)
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