ok i was raised to tip 15% and then suddenly when I was in my early 20s everyone started acting like only an asshole would tip less than 20 and I have to know when the fuck it changed
oh wait actually - so since lockdown i’ve switched to a heuristic of not tipping when i just pick up an order, idk if this makes sense
like theoretically now i’d only tip if i sat down and had a waiter / waitress