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i think in the past i would’ve felt embarrassed or something about the large swings in topic but look idk sometimes to figure out how to make money you have to go all the way back to how your anxious attachment makes you fundamentally afraid of exploring the world
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attachment repair guy: attachment patterns are discernible by 10 months of age, and 75% chance you have the same attachment patterns at 18 months vs. at age 20 me: *suddenly remembers that my dad moved to singapore a year ahead of my mom when i was 12 months old*
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strongly seconding this, asking my mom about her memories of her feelings just a few times in college did a TON to a) help me make sense of my own life and b) help us transition to an adult relationship based on respect and empathy
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