poll: can you make yourself feel better by imagining / fantasizing about nice things happening to you
- yes25.3%
- kinda?43.5%
- no26.2%
- results4.9%
526 votesFinal results
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i am currently at a "no" personally, something feels vaguely embarrassing about imagining nice things happening to me and either it feels like nothing or it feels vaguely heartbreaking or it feels intensely heartbreaking
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at my core it's always "you don't deserve it" and it's hard to convince myself otherwise
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personally it fills me with a kind of longing which is usually at the root of why i was feeling bad to begin with, so it feels almost directly counterproductive
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