really weird how you describe a problem you’re having and then people try to help you with that problem 🤔🤔🤔 i don’t really get it yet but thank you
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this is a whole other thing to get into some other time but it continues to viscerally confuse me when people are nice to me
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oh, i guess more specific than this: it viscerally confuses me when people are nice to me *after i have revealed myself to be incompetent*
it does ‘t confuse me when people are nice to me after i have done a cool thing
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My impulse is just about the opposite from what you seem to expect. Can't speak for anyone else, but I go out of my way to try to be kind to people who seem like they're struggling in one way or another- people who have recently accomplished cool things need the boost less.
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QC, you have value and you deserve kindness and love whether you've just done something cool, or whether you've just done something you feel less good about. ❤️
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