been processing the fact that, more than achieving X, I want to be appreciated by smart/thoughtful/observant people for the work that I put into achieving X. The achievements are kinda secondary (though, of course, only after the fact)
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So in this analogy I want to be appreciated for the work I put into becoming fuckable, more than I want to be appreciated *as* fuckable. I’m not sure if this is a common trait
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Replying to @visakanv
Doesn't it come back to your statement that we want to be fuckable than we want to fuck?
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oh i def want to be appreciated for the work i put into becoming fuckable lol whomst among us
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you're sandwiched in the replies between two ppl who feel differently 😂
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lol this is like the people i ran into at cambridge who wanted to seem like they put in no effort whatsoever academically and spent all their time drinking hmm
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This is literally high school
How hath the they not come so far
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i think at cambridge it kinda became a class thing? like “oh i’m part of the natural aristocracy i don’t need to put in effort”
the british eh
Yeah I’ve lived there meself
After encountering enough grads from the courtauld I get a picture of what you mean
I think class is an inescapable (non)reality there
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