Question for armchair psychologists: why might someone feel averse to *affecting* or intervening in the world (whether on accident, or intentionally)?
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for me there was / is a lot of not wanting anyone to be able to blame me if it goes wrong. it’s gotten a bit better
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this is tied to specific memories of e.g. being yelled at for breaking things as a kid
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2. Why are you afraid of being responsible if you know you can do better?
"Well because then it's my fault and there's no one else to blame but me"
Yes! Why is that a bad thing?
"Uh..."
Ooh, look, I'm inarticulate here. This is probably where we run into some childhood trauma
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step 1 is reclaiming fucking up for myself
step 2 is demonstrating the benefits
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is there any content glorifying (?) or maybe just integrating fucking up as a positive?
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fucking upward