actually the heart of this problem for me is
feeling like i have to spend all day coercing myself to do stuff i dont want to do, and wanting my hobbies/side-hustle(s) to feel noncoercivr
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but i think what's happening is that i'm taking some weird avoidant approach that does. not. work.
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p sure everything i've thought was a lack of direction is actually just me avoiding things once i've lost interest
anyone know of quick and dirty tips to get things done noncoercively
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i don't think quick and dirty works for this kind of thing i think you kinda gotta get your shit together and work through some stuff and find some loving support and all that other bullshit 😅
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ah jeez
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hmm no i dont like this one
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ok i'll bite, how does one go about "getting" one's "shit" together
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i would also like to know, kinda trying to do that rn
it is a pretty open-ended process of testing out different ways of like... doing?
like should i make plans and execute them, should i just do whatever i feel like, should i do what my stomach wants or what my chest wants
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i think the trick to that is sticking with something long enough to get data
but if the whole problem is not being able to stick to things...
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my best guess is "do smaller things"
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do 1% thing!
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somehow i needed the opposite of "do 100 thing"
"do 1% thing"
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