okay so like. uh. this feels like an embarrassing question to ask but. what should i do with my life
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Help people cry, duh.
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hmm honestly i don't think i'm good enough at it yet. and something feels weird now about making it my main thing. like there's a reason i haven't executed on this
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Dude you got me to cry out such deep trauma I wasn't even aware of it, and awareness of my shadow is my whole deal.
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that was pretty good huh
idk i've had a lot worse success with some other people though. i guess i don't have a clear sense of what like success % is reasonable to expect
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Could be a matter of figuring out why it works with some and not others, then niching down after that. But you're definitely skilled man.
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Like one of only 5 people I'd go to for emotional support skilled.
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thanks man, def means a lot coming from you 🙏
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i guess it's like... i know i often get good results when i feel "on" in a particular way, and i oscillate between feeling "on" and not and idk how to like... be consistently "on" enough to feel like i'm doing right by clients?
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Would you wanna be consistent in that way? Like would that be meaningful and important enough for you to do?
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whoops missed this in the notifications somehow. being a certain level of consistent is what it would take for me to feel comfortable going all-in on coaching as my main gig. right now i don't feel stable enough
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Giving advice to myself:
- Systematize your basic emotional tools (especially grounding & being kind to yourself), and practice them ***yourself*** til they're totally habit / reflex / non-challenging
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Still giving advice to myself
- Give yourself permission (& set client expectations) that you may need to reschedule if you're having a super "off" day
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