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Ohhh, I just realized that most of the pushback against non-coercion is that people feel like they're being coerced into it.

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in the same way that most complaints about NVC are complaints about people using it violently lol

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Yeah, my abuser is very big on NVC.

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Yeup! And both cases, the complaints are valid, but are in no way a valid critique of the underlying technology.