hmmm i wonder if i can possibly say this w/o sounding bitchy. bc im being sincere here
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openness abt vulnerable topics is obviously a way to work through trauma that can be good for some people, but learning to keep your counsel abt your sex stuff can ALSO be a good way to work thru trauma
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& if you're following trauma twitter, there are obvious reasons that the former advice might be what you see more of. bc ppl who are working on something by talking abt ut, will necessarily talk abt it more than ppl who are working on something by not talking abt it
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word. i have entered a not-talking-about-it mode and i think it’s good and going well and also of course it’s quite hard to tell