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Oct 12, 2020

think you're doing all of it right, including language that doesn't feel condescending to teens loving the advice of getting out of his head by taking up e.g. lifting weights one extra thing is unpacking friendzone pattern for him: help him recognize elements in himself&girl

QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID

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@QiaochuYuan

Oct 13, 2020

yes tell him to lift oh my god please

QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID

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also uh idk i haven't read through this discussion so dunno if this sort of thing has already been said, but mainly what would've helped me to hear at that age (and for that matter like,,, a year ago) is 1) it's okay to be mad at her about it 2) it's not really about her

7:04 AM · Oct 13, 2020Twitter Web App

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Also, go easy on the “fair vs unfair” dichotomy – down that path lies inceldom