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What's your attachment style? You can get an overview of them here evergreenpsychotherapycenter.com/styles-adult-a (RTs appreciated)

Secure (autonomous)
23.8%
Avoidant (dismissing)
34.3%
Anxious (preoccupied)
30.2%
Disorganized (unresolved)
11.6%

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Fake Mario

@ShakedDown

Aug 21, 2020

"which style are you" implies different approaches with pluses and minuses, but these just seem like a straightforward "how confident are you" question. I don't imagine there's any advantage in being insecure or dismissive.

QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID

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it's mostly not a choice

11:50 PM · Aug 21, 2020Twitter Web App

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I think it also depends on relationship, so I’m not totally sure it’s quite a stable personality trait (I’m unfamiliar with the literature, I only mean my experience)

Sumit Ghosh

@summitkg

Aug 22, 2020

The literature mostly focuses on the behavior of children relating to their primary caregiver. And then there are some studies showing that those behavior extends to their adult life to some extent. So yeah, it's mostly not a choice, it's a part of your personality.

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