A) What is your gender (sorry for binary quiz 😬)?
B) During sex, do you feel more comfortable asking for “more”/“harder” or “less”/“gentler”?
- Male | more46%
- Male | less27.5%
- Female | more17.5%
- Female | less8.9%
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i do not feel comfortable asking for anything 🥺
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FWIW the reason I am so interested in talking about topics like this is because I have always had that problem too, not bc I have it figured out :)
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hah! i'm quite comfortable asking!
it only took *checks notes* 4 years with the same person
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You’re certainly not alone. I got a lot of instruction on how wanting things had Political Implications back when I was dating, and so decided not to have that fight; now I don’t date, so it’s not an issue. So it goes.
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