poll 2 of 2: what's your ~gender | do you feel like your social environment is pressuring you to have kids or not to have kids (let's count neutral as "no")
e.g. do you feel like if you told your friends you wanted to have kids that they'd be supportive or make fun of you
poll 3 of 2, for people who want kids only (pls do not click on a random option to see the results i will screenshot them):
what's your ~gender | would you feel comfortable bringing up that you want kids on the first date