spend 10-100 hours gathering people together to continuously report how they feel in their bodies to each other and you will learn a lot of things. mostly you'll learn that everyone is suffering
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Are you counting boredom, sleepiness, hungry as suffering out of interest?
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tbh i think boredom is kinda fake and sleepiness is also often fake
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more wild speculation: when kids yawn in school it's not because they're "bored," it's because they both don't want to be there and can't leave and yawning is a symptom of that internal conflict ("emotional narcolepsy")
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to say it in more detail, i think often when people describe being bored what they mean is they're craving a distraction from some unpleasant thought / feeling; in that thread i QT'd the unpleasant thought / feeling is "i don't want to be here"
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When I say bored - I just mean "not stimulated", and I'm frustrated at being in that state (personally)
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yeah so my claim is that if not being stimulated is frustrating you might be interested in investigating whether it's because it brings up unpleasant thoughts / feelings you'd rather avoid
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my experience is that it usually has a lot of specific structure but it can take awhile to reveal itself
tasks i've been avoiding, people i feel guilty about hurting, things i feel ashamed of, etc. etc. etc. etc.
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have wondered about that before (more in a general/is Tim ferriss always trying to achieve stuff to avoid being sad) type thing.
Not sure how to figure this out tbh, I've actually come to the concl recently that there's *way less* wrong with me than I thought lol I.e...
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I'd be like "these are the potential traumas making me feel this way and the potential ways it's affecting me" and then like "ok so probably depressed about this, insecure about this" etc etc and after trying a bunch of shit, I'm now like, I think I just have adhd
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found the tweet i was looking for
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from romeo stevens
"high sensitivity to negative feelings in general with rejection just being of extra highlight"
"When I'm not stimulated enough I'm more likely to notice unwanted stimuli"
"Lack of a felt sense of progress and not knowing how to generate that for oneself"
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