poll 2 of 2: what's your ~gender | do you feel like your social environment is pressuring you to have kids or not to have kids (let's count neutral as "no")
e.g. do you feel like if you told your friends you wanted to have kids that they'd be supportive or make fun of you
I wonder how much of the social environment is either career or economic pressure (“wait until you finish grad school, have a high paying career, and savings!”)
Maybe something like:
a) with your current income/trajectory and geographical location, could you afford having a child within the next 3-5 years?
b) do you estimate more than 50% chance you will have a child within the next 3-5 years?