poll 1 of 2: what's your ~gender | do you want to or already have kids?
- ~male | yes kids58.2%
- ~male | no kids22.4%
- ~female | yes kids11.2%
- ~female | no kids8.2%
1,208 votesFinal results
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poll 2 of 2: what's your ~gender | do you feel like your social environment is pressuring you to have kids or not to have kids (let's count neutral as "no")
e.g. do you feel like if you told your friends you wanted to have kids that they'd be supportive or make fun of you
- ~male | yes kids32.3%
- ~male | no kids45.4%
- ~female | yes kids10%
- ~female | no kids12.3%
659 votesFinal results
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poll 3 of 2, for people who want kids only (pls do not click on a random option to see the results i will screenshot them):
what's your ~gender | would you feel comfortable bringing up that you want kids on the first date
- ~male | comfy36.8%
- ~male | uncomfy37.9%
- ~female | comfy12.1%
- ~female | uncomfy13.2%
174 votesFinal results
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Do your social environment pressures with respect to having kids overall align with your own preferences?
- ~male | yes22.2%
- ~male | no44.4%
- ~female | yes22.2%
- ~female | no11.1%
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This is a bit unclear - I went with male/no because I think my liberal western social environment is antinatal.
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I generally bring it up on second or third date, if I think it might be serious (although still awkward). First date is seeing if we even get along.
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Nonbinary, would definitely bring up wanting kids on the first date if the topic came up - if I were single now I would be seeking a long term nesting partner, and no kids is a deal breaker for me.
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My parents and family in general mad pressured me to have kids.
I'm sort of neutral on it. Slowly over time leaning more towards yes, so maybe yes
My friends and work are really supportive, and in some ways I feel they expect me to? they keep bringing it up sometimes
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