talking to therapist about "needs" and "wants" in friends and relationships made me feel like a dumb teenaged boy making a list for his perfect goth gf
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i get paralyzed just thinking about the idea of somehow being able to choose? friends?? i think the mechanism is just so unclear to me
movies/tv laid out dating clearly enough, but friendship??
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ROUND 1
friendship minimums:
- not totally unethical
- not mean to other ppl
- sense of humor or i'll end up being angry at them all the time
ideally:
- friendship isnt one-sided
- low-maintenance
- has deep interests
- not easily offended
- we have each other's backs
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i’ll be ur friend gobs 😭
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aww yeaaa
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sounds about right