I feel like people theorising the link between kinks and trauma often miss the point. You don't need complex theories to explain why someone is into a particular kink - it's just fun. What you need to explain is why people are stuck in a particular range of fun things.
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i donāt understand this. what does it mean for something to be ājust funā? i donāt experience hardly anything as ājust funā
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Why is any given activity āfunā?
What did you learn in your life that makes a specific thing feel good emotionally?
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thatās exactly the question, yes!