hahaha!
Oh, I hope you don't take this as mocking you, QC! I know you don't know about the specifics of the original conversation, so you are 100% absolved from blame!
did you hear?
You are more attractive than me, and also maybe your pic is of a thirst pose! 🤣
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if this is a thirst post I quit 😆
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But I assume that's not what QC meant - he meant that it's much more likely that one of me and you would get a message than him and Visa, because they are boys.
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Yeah, good point. Boys are gross. 😂
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i don’t want to make this a whole thing but i actually believe that i am disgusting and it hurts to hear other people confirm that even as a joke
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One of the strangest things that dating women/kink has taught me is that it is precisely the aspects of myself I was conditioned to believe were "gross" that are most attractive.
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I get it if you guys don’t want to, but could you say a little more about what things you mean by “gross”? Eg. body hair / physical traits, or sexual urges/impulses?
(Those were guesses at things that I think are attractive, but where I can imagine internalizing the opposite)
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I was referring mostly to the latter.
Body image is a related but somewhat discrete knot to untangle.
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Huh men are in a weird cultural bind, where their sexual impulses are seen as inappropriate until a woman wants them directed at her, in which case they’re instantly in demand/necessary? Like “it’s ok to have urges, so long as a woman wants them”? Not sure.
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that is def how it feels to me. any sexual desire i could feel is either disgusting or mandatory