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brooke is in sf

Alright, Twitter. A few of us have been talking, and we've realized that some people get solicitations/lewd messages in DMs, while others do not. We want to try to get a better idea of what kind of variables might be coming into the mix! Have you received any?

Yes, unsolicited
9.1%
No
88.3%
Yes, but I solicited it
2.5%

197 votesFinal results

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brooke is in sf

If yes/unsolicited: How many followers do you have, and do you have a face pic as your avi?

0-500/no face pic
42.9%
0-500/yes face pic
18.4%
500+/no face pic
16.3%
500+/yes face pic
22.4%

49 votesFinal results

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brooke is in sf

Do you have any thoughts as to other variables that might be of relevance here? Once I get a little larger sample set, I may be able to come up with a more useful series of polls, if any of y'all are willing to help in the name of science!! 😊

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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID

by far the most important variable is whether the avi is a moderately attractive woman specifically

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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID

esp. if it’s an explicit thirst pose

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brooke is in sf

hahaha! Oh, I hope you don't take this as mocking you, QC! I know you don't know about the specifics of the original conversation, so you are 100% absolved from blame!

did you hear? You are more attractive than me, and also maybe your pic is of a thirst pose! 🤣

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if this is a thirst post I quit 😆

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But I assume that's not what QC meant - he meant that it's much more likely that one of me and you would get a message than him and Visa, because they are boys.

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brooke is in sf

Yeah, good point. Boys are gross. 😂

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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID

😔

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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID

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i don’t want to make this a whole thing but i actually believe that i am disgusting and it hurts to hear other people confirm that even as a joke

9:59 PM · Aug 16, 2020Twitter for iPad

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@meaning_enjoyer

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One of the strangest things that dating women/kink has taught me is that it is precisely the aspects of myself I was conditioned to believe were "gross" that are most attractive.

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I get it if you guys don’t want to, but could you say a little more about what things you mean by “gross”? Eg. body hair / physical traits, or sexual urges/impulses? (Those were guesses at things that I think are attractive, but where I can imagine internalizing the opposite)

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brooke is in sf

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I don't mean to be harsh here, but that joke was based off the idea that only female faces are attractive- it didn't occur to me that's what you meant until

pointed it out. I don't believe that in general, and specifically I think your face is very attractive!!

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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID

ohh okay that makes a bit more sense thank you. fwiw the claim i’m making is a bit different - that the vast majority of sliding into DMs is straight men sliding into women’s DMs, for probably a bunch of reasons i promise i was not fishing for compliments 😅

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pls make a whole thing Q(T)C I come from a similar place so it's nice to see that I'm not alone

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brooke is in sf

I second this! I have learned a bunch today- and if there is one person you've helped feel less alone, there might be more you can reach!

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