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After I healed some stuff that was making me feel basically incompetent and incapable of taking care of myself, a large chunk of my submissive-type fantasies also disappeared. That was 3 years ago and they haven't come back.
OTOH I do still have fantasies around being dominant.
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reading about that in your old blog post was hugely eye-opening for me so thank you for that - first sign i ever saw that this stuff could have any comprehensible structure and could meaningfully change over time
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