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Yeah... I'm not saying trauma or psychological needs never create subs/doms, but subby sexual thoughts are some of my earliest memories, like 4-5 yo, and some female friends have reported the same. I strongly suspect it's just hardware.
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i’m not about to claim it’s 0% hardware or that anything is guaranteed in either direction here, and/but i think 4 years is plenty of time for lots of weird psychological stuff to happen already, and/but i have no interest in persuading anyone of this
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i’m reading this book mostly for myself and posting excerpts in case it helps anyone else and if it doesn’t seem like it’d going to help you please just ignore it


