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Yeah... I'm not saying trauma or psychological needs never create subs/doms, but subby sexual thoughts are some of my earliest memories, like 4-5 yo, and some female friends have reported the same. I strongly suspect it's just hardware.
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i’m not about to claim it’s 0% hardware or that anything is guaranteed in either direction here, and/but i think 4 years is plenty of time for lots of weird psychological stuff to happen already, and/but i have no interest in persuading anyone of this
i’m reading this book mostly for myself and posting excerpts in case it helps anyone else and if it doesn’t seem like it’d going to help you please just ignore it
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