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I’ve read that men don’t often get compliments. I was surprised, bc I feel inclined to give compliments to men basically all the time. (And do?)
But also often seems very weird if I imagine the genders reversed, so I do it much less often than I’m inclined.
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Like: if someone makes a video about their work, and I message them “omg so handsome 🥰!” That would be *really* weird, right?
If I posted a neutral/work-oriented video and got a lot of comments on how I looked, I would feel pretty conflicted, I think.
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I think women share more selfies etc, where it is more clearly ok to publicly compliment them?
I’m a bit less certain about men, unless they post themselves... idk, dancing or something? Or a selfie I guess?
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I also recognize some sort of fear I have about complimenting too many men. Like, if I were to just go around telling men how I thought they were attractive, or looked good today or whatever, I’m *pretty* sure I’d either get judged about it, or people would think I was insincere.
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huh, most women i’ve talked to about this say very specifically that they don’t do this because they don’t want it to be interpreted as flirtation. i think if you’re not worried about that it would be very welcome!