"How we talk about poly people" thread reminds me that I often notice and occasionally point out that many people talk about furries in almost *exactly* the way that people they hate talk about queer people and somehow experience no cognitive dissonance about this.
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it’s almost like people don’t actually have principles and just bully whoever their social context tells them is acceptable targets 🤔
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Yeah but calling them on their hypocrisy helps change the social context
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does it tho 🤔
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Kinda, yeah. If people get consistently called on their hypocrisy that's part of the social context, and putting together a good argument in public for why This Is Not OK removes plausible deniability and gives others who are already on side tools for promoting good behaviour.
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i think this basically doesn't work anymore on the internet, if it ever did. it might work with people you have existing relationships with irl. do you have any evidence that this works?
realized i can gather data on this question myself
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poll: has a "callout" post on social media from a stranger (e.g. a post dunking on some kind of hypocrisy that you engage in) ever motivated you to be a better person in any way?
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This poll doesn't test what I'm claiming though? You're missing the crucial step which is the actual proposed mechanism.
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I think if people get push back from enough places, it changes their sense of the beliefs of the social context.
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Like, if _one_ person calls you out for eating meat, you'll decide that they're bad and ignore them/ make fun of them, but if a bunch of people start saying how bad meat-eating is, your subconscious sense of the social mores change, and suddenly you'll find meat-eating abhorrent.
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