what she says: go 👏 to 👏 therapy
what she means: i can see that you're really hurting and it frustrates me so much that i can tell how much better both of our lives would be if you got help with it. i love you but you're miserable and it's making me miserable. please get help
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what she says: go 👏 to 👏 therapy
what she means: i have been hurt by men who didn't know how to handle their feelings my entire life and i'm sick of it. now that i know it's possible to take responsibility for your own shit, i'm not gonna put up with people who aren't anymore
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what she says: go 👏 to 👏 therapy
what she means: i am beyond grateful for all the progress i feel like i've made in therapy and i fantasize about how much better the world would be if everyone else could make the same kind of progress. it feels too vulnerable to say that tho
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what she says: go 👏 to 👏 therapy
what she means: i don't know how to express my feelings except as demands, just like my parents; in demanding that strangers on the internet go to therapy i am actually replaying my family trauma with them. my therapist is not very good
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