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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID 😷)
@QiaochuYuan
twitter is like a competition to see who in the world can summon the most dangerous demon and people get better at it every day (11/n)
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Visa ✈️ SF (Aug 2-14)
@visakanv
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slightly troubling to note that if I made decisions by polling The People... The People would drag me straight to hell,,, (as a treat) you cannot really summon fractional demons, that's the tricky thing about demons. you summon it and it typically consumes everything
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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID 😷)
@QiaochuYuan
there's a big conversation to be had, beyond the scope of this thread, about how to redesign social media so that it does not encourage demon summoning quite so hard, but in the meantime what we all personally can do is strive to be kinder online (12/n)
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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID 😷)
@QiaochuYuan
using twitter in a way that is focused on kindness means actively fighting twitter's tendency to pull you towards hatred; this is part of what i read into
@visakanv
's description of being Very Online as an "extreme sport" (13/n)
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Visa ✈️ SF (Aug 2-14)
@visakanv
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the trick to being Extremely Online in a way that doesn't involve turning into a shell script is... you have to learn to surf the chaos of other people it is said that hell is other people; there is a truth to that what I do is a form of hell-surfing it's an extreme sport
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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID 😷)
@QiaochuYuan
a big part of how i try to be on twitter is 1) i try not to start conversations i think will produce triggering dynamics, and 2) if i somehow end up in one and get triggered, i try to name that i'm triggered and pause or leave the conversation to work through it (14/n)
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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID 😷)
@QiaochuYuan
the point of naming that i'm triggered is to remove my own plausible deniability. most people just "tweet through it" and there's a name for that for a reason. your reasoning becomes extremely untrustworthy, everything becomes about proving you were right at all costs (15/n)
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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID 😷)
@QiaochuYuan
a funny meta-note i kinda have to add to this is that the word "trigger" has itself become charged and politicized i think the way this happened is that people weaponized "X triggered me, therefore X is bad" this is the opposite of what i'm saying (16/n)
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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID 😷)
@QiaochuYuan
my experience has consistently been that "X triggered me" is much more about me than it is about X, and that focusing on the me part of that interaction is much better for my sanity than blaming X for making me feel bad, which just never ever ever ever works (17/n)
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QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID 😷)
@QiaochuYuan
having written all of this out, i think the biggest criticism of this perspective that i anticipate caring about is something like "what about righteous anger? what about standing up for what you believe in?" i could say a bunch of things here, but let's try this: (18/n)
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brooke is in sf
@gptbrooke
I took the time yesterday to actually define, for the first time, what I saw as the difference between anger and passion, within myself: Anger=focusing on what another person/group has done wrong Passion=more about what I can personally do to make things better
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