half-baked: people play at all times the most fun game they know how to play. if you see someone doing something that looks ridiculously unfun to you assume it is because they literally don’t know how to play a more fun game than what they’re playing
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this includes assuming that you might not understand the ways in which the game they’re playing is fun to them
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people play the game of hatred because it’s fun, but they also play it because they don’t know how to play the game of love
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i forgot to spell out the rest of the logic: the implication here is that the way to change other people’s behavior is not by trying to argue them out of it but by visibly having more fun doing something else
may be the grand champion of this
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Things made a lot more sense when I assumed that people are always doing the best they know how
Coherence therapy on steroids
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it makes sense but also it’s heartbreaking oh my god
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Now I’m wondering if there are any people who are masters of both, or can at least grok both.
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Love & insight overcomes *hate & ignorance, both of which are unsubstainable. Love in the final analysis is indestructible.