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goblin à la mode

@goblinodds

Jul 8, 2020

ey frens, come at me with examples of when you've been disagreeable *effectively*

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Visa

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@visakanv

· Jul 8, 2020

been stewing on this for *years* but I'm starting to be clearer about it the effectiveness of agreeableness and disagreeableness happens in phases, in yin-yang cycles. a person who's disposed towards one likely needs to find a way to skillfully apply the opposite/inverse vibe

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mechanical monk

@mechanical_monk

Jul 8, 2020

once I had a job and there was something that didn't make sense about the ux in a major way and I had an hour long slack call with the tech lead where I battered him with examples of how it's done elsewhere and with theoretical justifications until he gave in and let me fix it

mechanical monk

@mechanical_monk

Jul 8, 2020

also I think a few times in my life I courted women who didn't really feel like being courted by me until they gave in and started dating me

Raccoon Twink (female)

@CrisprChild

Jul 9, 2020

This seems like a not good way to approach things tbh

QC (in Berlin 7/29-??? w/ COVID

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agreed, i have regrets about the one time i did this :/ in my case it only worked b/c the girl had bad boundaries and i didn’t understand that sort of thing at the time at all (freshman year of college)

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in my case no boundaries were violated, but still I managed to close a sale on a product that, in retrospect, made the customers worse off, probably