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@maybegray
I dislike most safe spaces, support groups, minority communities, etc. I belong to lots of the sort of demographics these of things aim to serve & I found them all super toxic and counterproductive; looking for belonging among people “like me” in that sense just slowed me down
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I dislike expressing enthusiasm around someone who is expressing cynicism ex I just won’t watch magic tricks with someone who thinks they’re gimmicky bc it ruins my own enthusiasm about the tricks for me for them to refuse to suspend their disbelief with me
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I don’t like any of my grandparents, I resent them for all the times they were mean to my Mom and Dad
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I dislike critiques of religion that completely fail to acknowledge parallel problems in secular contexts
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I dislike directly requesting things I would enjoy, I prefer to get my jollies inception-style
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I dislike my tendency to take things personally and/or over-interpret boundaries so I can work harder than I am asked to work to earn love and affection and then pretend I’m overachieving in relationships when really I’m being a sycophantic lil fuck L O L
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I dislike virtue signalling but I esp dislike parents who go to bizarre performative lengths to avoid gendering their kids
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tipsy is ok but I get frustrated if my speech starts to slur and I get sad and bashful if I get dizzy or clumsy or sick oh also I’m terribly effusive, I get so sappy the little sober part of my brain wants to throw up once in a while I pick play fights with drunk guys & lose😅
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